It was three dates later with Brandon until I invited him home. During these couple of weeks, we texted and face-timed. A lot. We talked about everything that we liked in more detail. That was when I realized that you should never surprise a man by the fact that you’re a dominant woman. I thought I’d have to invite them over and surprise them with a whip, hoping they would be into that kind of thing. But that never turned out the way I wanted it to. Even when they were into it, it would all seem too forced, like it was an act on display.

From the way it started out, I had thought this was going to go smoothly. But then he made those remarks that completely turned me off. As I stripped him naked, grabbed him by the chin, and looked him in the eye while I jerked him off, he said, “Yeah, you like that?” referring to his cock.