How To Find A Mistress: Online Dating Advice For Submissive Men Part 1

I’ve personally come across many dating profiles that immediately turn me off, some of which just try too hard to explain the obvious in simple terms that could have been a little cleverer. Coming across a profile with a bio that says nothing but “Looking for a sexy woman to dominate me” makes me immediately look elsewhere. You’re on a Fetish app; you don’t need to state the obvious. So without further ado, let me cut to the chase about how you can find a mistress online and set up an attractive online profile in a way that makes you stand out.

How to write an excellent online presentation

No one likes walls of texts in the bio section. You need to leave a little to talk about with your future mistress. The sexiest part of a healthy sub-dom relationship is building it up; getting to know your dom as you slowly establish a bond. If there’s anything I encounter more often than not, it’s men who tell rather than show in their bios. “I’m a funny man who knows how to make a woman happy.”

Let me be the judge of that.

If you want to come off as someone with a good sense of humor, make your bio funny. Impress me by writing something clever and catchy; and at the same time, something that actually says something about your personality rather than what you enjoy. Surely, these dating websites are basically a gateway for fun casual sex, for the most part. But that doesn’t mean that dominant women want to get straight to it. They’ll want to get to know you, see if you click, before they decide they’re going to annihilate you in bed. Or in their mini sex dungeon.

Online dating photo tips

While sexy photos can be fun, you don’t necessarily have to upload a picture of yourself in bondage to appeal to women. In fact, if it’s a casual photograph, which leaves plenty to the imagination, that usually makes it more intriguing and a little more mysterious. Finding someone who suits you should never be stressful and doesn’t require a professional photoshoot of you tied to a canopy bed. Be and look natural, and women will likely pick up on your submissive tendencies just fine.

Don’t write self-centered bios

This goes for both your bio and your interaction with any woman you meet on a dating app. Dominant women aren’t tools for your pleasure. An FLR is a mutual bond, where each party contributes to pleasuring the other. Don’t inundate your profile with things that you enjoy being done to you, because that will make you come off as a man who’s only seeking his own pleasure.

Doms will order you to eat them out, suck on their toes, and fuck them; and if you don’t appear like you’d enjoy that, then what’s the point? While I’ve initially advised you to avoid making it about yourself, I would also add that you keep it simple and subtle. Don’t give off too much information about what you like, and leave some space for you and your potential match to converse.

How To Find A Mistress part 2

These were three main areas of your dating profile; check out part 2, where I walk you thru a few more concepts to increase your chances of finding a mistress.

Do you want to learn more about finding a mistress and what it takes to set up a healthy and fulfilling female led relationship?

Check out my 3-part book series Femdom, FLR and Female led relationships books on Amazon here.

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